It's been two months since I started working a few days a week in an adult shop, and I truly am loving it. There has been a lot of changes, especially the massive leap in sex tech since I last worked in one at the start of 2020. So much so I've contemplated the excitement of becoming a chronic masturbator (which doesn't go well with work) and never leaving my house (maybe I could stream this?). There have been a few things that certainly haven't changed, or simply I'm seeing

I was educated at a Grammar school, and for most of the history of social media and text messaging I have been rolling my eyes at the abuses to the English language. Like the wrong usage of 'they're, their, there' or worse yet, 'should of'. But all of that can go to hell. Not just because my own punctuational nuances have been brought under scrutiny in the past year while my editor rolls her eyes at my book drafts, but because it just doesn't matter. Our language, as with all

On my NGL anonymous questions, I was recently asked: 'Does physical attraction ever play a role in whether you accept a client?' A lot of the time I won't know what someone looks like until they show up. There are a few things I do to check that someone making an enquiry for the first time is a real person, and sometimes that can reveal a photo, but how someone looks never plays a part on 'accepting' a booking. Accepting any client purely comes down to whether I agree that I

Discussing all things sex and consent have been part of my every day jargon for many years now. It's essential to my work, and obviously also talking about consent to any sexual partner I may have outside work. However I have noticed something recently, and also understand that it has been a bit of a failing on my part to not recognise this earlier, but openly talking about sexual wants, desires and needs, isn't something a lot of people are used to discussing. I know that wh

I usually answer these anonymous questions via my Instagram stories, but this one required a longer answer than that platform can...

It's that time of the year again, albeit a little later than usual. I struggle with the wording of this every year. 'Giveaway' seems...

This year I've been plowing through a bunch of books. To the horror of my friend, I only read non fiction books. I get my fiction fix...

Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault At the start of November, I went down to the Scarlet Alliance National Forum, as a representative of...

From the start of 2019 until I began my path into this career, I was working in an adult shop in Western Sydney. My time there was a...

Originally posted November 18, 2021 Just before Sydney went into its second lock down, I posted up a give away for my Ultimate Indulgence...

Originally posted November 18, 2021 I was working in an adult shop in Western Sydney the first time I heard about Touching Base. There...